I noticed that people who loves cooking doesn’t like cleaning up after cooking. My sister and SIL are one of them. The kitchen will be in a mess after they finish cooking. What will they normally do after cooking? Eat then sleep! So, what did I do after eating? Clean up their mess.
My SIL will wash up all the wok, pot and pans but the extra onion, garlic, spices, salt, blended chili, the potato etc will be all over the place. The washing sponge is not at its place. The cloths are not hanging at its place. And the kitchen floor is sticky. Something spill, it is not wipe immediately. Someone step on it and dirty the whole house.
Oh ya, everyone in my house wears slipper in the house except the children. The adults don’t feel the sticky or dusty floor but the children feet get very dirty especially my crawling son.
You want a cook; you get a cook but not a cleaner. 
Stumble it!
Issit? normally i will try to clean, the most will leave a few dishes for my husband
I did have a friend who cook, eat then sleep lor, very messy